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Top Ten Qualities In A Girl.

I am coming up another Top-10 list again. This time, it is the list of qualities my ideal girl should have aka 择偶条件. Not that I will be using this list to find a wife or evaluate my girlfriend. Just for fun!

Having a beautiful face and hair, curvy body, are bonuses and are the least important things compared to the following...

1. She must be able to cook! Don't know can learn... Eventually must know! =) Not that I wish that she'll cook for me everyday, but when she feels like doing so, it must be OYISHI!

2. She must be smart. Kiang 就好, but don't Gek Kiang. Smarter than me is fine. That doesn't mean she has to know everything. She must be able to comprehend what I like to tell her, be able to discuss those geeky things with me (and laugh over my corny geeky jokes)... which bring us to the next point...

3. She must be humble. Humble and interested enough to listen to me. It is about communication. Don't like someone who just want me to listen to her all day.

4. She must be cute and sweet. Not act cute lah. Maybe it is her facial expression or her voice, that cute feeling lorh.

5. She must be mature and sensible. That means she knows what she should do and what she shouldn't. She can make reasonable decisions on her own if necessary and take care of herself.

6. She must be filial and family-oriented. It will be good if I am very important to her, but her family should be the most important.

7. She must love music. It will be even better if she can sing or play some musical instrument!

8. She must be appreciative and understanding. Appreciate what I do for her, look at things from my point of view. Share my burden and happiness.

9. She must be kind hearted and be able to empathise! No need to be a heart of gold tho'.

10. She must be silly. Hah hah. Silly cuz I say so. Silly cuz she can be so innocent and adorable. This is a tricky one, only I can tell...

So... am I describing anyone here??? =p Hmmm... How come I have a feeling I came up with this list before. Is it in one of my past posts???
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