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More So-What(s).

It was fun listing some of my So-What(s) that I am going to list more. Of cuz, I came up (ie. made up) with most of them, not all are my grudges. Which is real, that's for you to decide. =p

Anyway, before I go on, I think I want to add on that you should not try to complete the So-What(s) or add another sentence after it. Just leave it as it is. Different people may have different interpretations. Eg. "So what... is the big deal? (It's not a big deal.)" or "So what... can you do? (You are helpless, there is nothing you can do. Forget it.)" I'd prefer the former interpretation.

Let me quit pretending to be philosophical and go back to being crappy.

"Those buggers on the bus refuse to move to the rear." So what.
"He cut my queue." So what.
"That old man gave me a dirty look." So what.
"He was digging his nose and flicking his booger at my direction!" So what.
"Those idiots stood on the platform as if they were told to fall-in there." So what.
"He drives his lorry like a Ferrari." So what.

It can be motivating too if you focus on yourself. You can always do better.

"I got all distinctions, topped the school, got ten offers for scholarships, and got accepted into Harvard, Yale, MIT, Oxford and Cambridge!" So what.
"My boss gave me a five-hundred bucks raise and promoted me two grades!" So what.
"I won the three-million TOTO jackpot!" So what.

Once again, let me reassure you that I am neither bitter nor depressed. Thanks for the concern. I am fine and quite self-amused! Aiyar, you know me lah... So what. You think I care meh? Wahahahaha! Eh... so... what are your So-What(s)?

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