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Still Sober After MoMo.

I am not dispensing an advice, neither am I bullshiting out a big theory. I am blogging this down here for myself. Thinking thru' it, making myself feel better as I type...

I'm not sure whether talking about things/problems is always the right thing to do. I mean when you talk about it, things get clearer, problems are magnified. At the same time, emotions are also stirred up and reinforced. And that makes me quite unhappy. But the fact is, sometimes problems stay there when you don't do anything about it. After a period, you might think why do I have to remind myself about it again? But hey, the problem will continue to haunt you in some way until the day you take those skeletons out of your closet. So it might be good to just talk it out early. In life, most of the time, others are unable to solve the problems for us, they may try to console us, try to think of solutions, and even give you the so-call model answers. But we should feel the warmth, they care, they bother, their intentions are noble. It is up to ourselves to defeat the greatest hurdle, our emotions.

This modern day drama is showing everyday. The unfortunates of life, the emotion burdens, losing your loved ones, coming down with illness, coping with money issues. When I sit down and think, thats a whole lot of things to settle. And thinking about it is so tiring already! Okay okay, one at a time, slowly, its okay to be slow just get it over and done with.

I am sure everyone has their own drama playing in their life, that others are unaware of. So let us assume, and not assume that we they lead a happy life and we are the only ones with shits in our life, but assume that they are leading a worse of life which they kept to themselves. So when your friends or family members are agitated, don't be so quick to dismiss it as them having lousy attitude and say something nasty back. We need to listen more, talk more, listen even more. We need patience.


Let's take a big SIGH. Let's also take a deep BREATH! Feel much better now? Another baggage dropped, another bar added to our energy level indicator.

I'm not a religious person, but I do believe in miracles and a higher being out there listening to us when all others don't. You might call this being God? I pray to God that everyone will be able to solve their problems and get something good out of it along the way. Dad, mum, sis, dear, and you and you and you and my dearest friends, I pray for you!

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